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“The past is a foreign country; they do things differently there.”

Chapter 1: The Fading Marriage

Kaname and Misako, a married couple in 1920s Japan, drift apart as their relationship grows cold. Misako seeks solace in the arms of another man, while Kaname remains passive, resigned to their emotional distance. Their son, Hiroshi, becomes a silent witness to their unraveling marriage.

Chapter 2: The Allure of Tradition

Kaname visits his father-in-law, who lives a traditional lifestyle with his mistress, O-hisa. The contrast between the old and new Japan fascinates Kaname, who begins to question his own modern values. O-hisa embodies the fading beauty of the past, drawing Kaname into nostalgic longing.

Chapter 3: The Puppet Theater

Kaname attends a bunraku (puppet theater) performance with his father-in-law, immersing himself in the art form’s slow, deliberate beauty. The puppets’ exaggerated emotions contrast with his own repressed feelings, deepening his internal conflict between modernity and tradition.

Chapter 4: Misako’s Dilemma

Misako openly discusses her desire for divorce, but Kaname hesitates, unwilling to confront the situation directly. Their conversations circle around their unhappiness without resolution. Meanwhile, Kaname grows increasingly drawn to O-hisa’s quiet, traditional femininity.

Chapter 5: The Visit to Kyoto

Kaname travels to Kyoto with his father-in-law and O-hisa, further distancing himself from Misako. The ancient city’s preserved traditions intensify his yearning for a simpler, more aesthetic life. O-hisa’s graceful presence becomes a symbol of the past he feels he has lost.

Chapter 6: The Final Decision

Kaname and Misako reach a silent understanding that their marriage is over, though neither takes decisive action. The novel ends ambiguously, with Kaname lingering in his indecision, torn between the modern world he inhabits and the traditional one he romanticizes.


Key Ideas

  • The tension between modernity and tradition in early 20th-century Japan.
  • The disintegration of a marriage due to emotional detachment.
  • The allure of nostalgia and the past as an escape from present dissatisfaction.
  • The contrast between Western-influenced urban life and traditional Japanese aesthetics.
  • The role of passive indecision in personal and cultural stagnation.

Who should read this book?

  • Readers interested in Japanese literature and cultural transitions.
  • Those who enjoy introspective, character-driven narratives.
  • Fans of slow-paced, atmospheric novels exploring marital discord.
  • Anyone drawn to themes of nostalgia and the clash between old and new worlds.