“We always think there’s enough time to do things with other people. Time to say things to them. And then something happens and then we stand there holding on to words like ‘if’.”
Chapter 1: A Man Called Ove Buys a Computer That Was Not a Computer
Ove, a grumpy 59-year-old widower, attempts to buy an iPad but ends up frustrated by the salesman’s condescension. The chapter introduces his rigid routines, his disdain for modern technology, and his grief over his wife Sonja’s recent death. His life is strictly governed by rules, order, and a simmering anger at the world.
Chapter 2: A Man Called Ove Makes His Neighborhood Inspection
Ove patrols his neighborhood, enforcing his self-imposed rules. He argues with his neighbors over parking violations and scolds a stray cat. Flashbacks reveal his strict father’s influence and how Ove inherited his sense of justice and stubbornness.
Chapter 3: A Man Called Ove Backs a Trailer
Ove’s new neighbors, the pregnant Parvaneh and her clumsy husband Patrick, accidentally back their trailer into Ove’s mailbox. Despite his irritation, Ove begrudgingly helps them. Flashbacks show his early life, including his mother’s death and his father’s quiet pride in him.
Chapter 4: A Man Called Ove Doesn’t Pay a Visit
Ove visits Sonja’s grave, talking to her as if she were still there. He struggles with loneliness and contemplates suicide, but interruptions from neighbors keep delaying his plans. Memories reveal how Sonja brought joy and color into his otherwise black-and-white life.
Chapter 5: A Man Called Ove and the Bicycle That Should Have Been Parked Where It Was Allowed
Ove clashes with a bicyclist who ignores neighborhood rules. Meanwhile, Parvaneh’s persistence forces Ove to help her learn to drive. Flashbacks show Ove’s early days with Sonja, their love story, and how she softened his rigid worldview.
Chapter 6: A Man Called Ove and the Society That Ought to Be
Ove confronts bureaucratic officials who dismiss his concerns about neighborhood safety. His sense of justice flares up, and he takes matters into his own hands. Flashbacks reveal his early career struggles and how Sonja encouraged him to stand up for himself.
Chapter 7: A Man Called Ove and the Incompetent Government
Ove’s feud with local authorities escalates, but he finds unexpected allies in his neighbors. Parvaneh’s warmth begins to chip away at his gruff exterior. Memories show how Sonja’s optimism balanced Ove’s pessimism, making him a better man.
Chapter 8: A Man Called Ove and the Cat Annoyance
The stray cat Ove reluctantly adopts becomes a constant companion. His irritation masks a growing attachment. Flashbacks reveal how Sonja loved animals, making Ove’s care for the cat a quiet tribute to her.
Chapter 9: A Man Called Ove and the Lanky One Who Can’t Open a Window Properly
Ove helps a young man, Adrian, repair his broken window. Their interaction hints at Ove’s hidden kindness. Flashbacks show how Sonja’s unwavering belief in people’s goodness influenced Ove, even if he’d never admit it.
Chapter 10: A Man Called Ove and the Driving Lesson
Parvaneh’s driving lessons with Ove become a comedic yet touching routine. His grumbling hides genuine concern for her safety. Memories reveal how Sonja taught Ove to drive, mirroring his current reluctant mentorship.
Chapter 11: A Man Called Ove and the Letter
Ove discovers an old letter from Sonja, reigniting his grief but also reminding him of her love. He slowly reconnects with his neighbors, forming reluctant friendships. Flashbacks show Sonja’s illness and Ove’s helpless devotion during her final days.
Chapter 12: A Man Called Ove and the End
Ove’s suicide attempts keep failing due to interruptions—neighbors needing help, the cat demanding food. Each disruption pulls him further back into life. The chapter culminates in Ove accepting that he still has a purpose, thanks to the community he once despised.
Chapter 13: A Man Called Ove and a Story About a Trailer and a Snowstorm
A blizzard hits the neighborhood, and Ove organizes efforts to help those in need, including an elderly man who was once his enemy. His leadership and hidden generosity shine. Flashbacks reveal how Sonja always saw the good in him.
Chapter 14: A Man Called Ove and a New Beginning
Ove fully embraces his role in the community, becoming a surrogate grandfather to Parvaneh’s children and a mentor to others. The book ends with Ove passing away peacefully, reunited with Sonja in death, surrounded by the people who love him.
Key Ideas
- Grief and healing after loss
- The power of community and unexpected friendships
- Finding purpose in helping others
- Love’s enduring impact beyond death
- Grumpiness as a mask for deep care
Who should read this book?
- Readers who enjoy heartwarming, character-driven stories
- Those dealing with grief or loneliness
- Fans of curmudgeonly protagonists with hidden depth
- Anyone who appreciates dry humor and emotional storytelling
Notable Adaptations
| Year | Name | Notes |
|---|---|---|
| 2015 | A Man Called Ove (Film) | Swedish adaptation, nominated for Academy Awards |
| 2022 | A Man Called Otto | American remake starring Tom Hanks |